Hi everyone, I am blogging a little late in the week than planned. But I’m here to update you on the most current situation. I wanted to personally thank Jessica of http://equuspalaverous.wordpress.com/ for helping me out with Ink through email :).
Meghan didn’t end up coming on Sunday. She called me in the morning to tell me that the mare who she’d been waiting for nearly 3 weeks to give birth, finally did. I really was looking forward to her coming out, but I can only imagine how exhausted one must be after sleeping in the barn for that long waiting for a mare to foal.
On Monday Matt and I brought the horses out and free lunged them in the arena. Ink was a happy, competitive, horse following Errika around the arena. He threw some massive bucks as usual and played catch up with the frisky Arab mare.
I’m feeling much better about what’s been going on. I am pretty sure I took it hard because for the first time I had someone tell me that he just might not be “it.” “It” I guess means the nice, sound OTTB who takes his rider to some Dressage and Jumping shows.
“It’s” not an “It” anyway. “He” is a beautiful creature with secrets to share that have only yet been starting to unfold. He could take me over a thousand jumps and we could ride some awesome tests, but at the end of the day, he is still an animal. He is still Ink and I won’t know who he is just by knowing what it’s like to ride him.
I have actually learned things from horses from cleaning up their poop. I’m now cleaning stalls for the barn where the horses are kept to help cover board. There is only four stalls inside the barn, but I love each horse in there. Especially one. His name is Bucky and I’ve known him since he was a wee lad. I used to play with him through a fence when he was kept in the field next to Errika and he would follow me around the field he was in when I would go in there. I’ve never rode him, don’t have any plans to. Well besides he’s one of the young ones in training. When I’m cleaning out his stall he is so into what’s going on and what I’m doing. I often times have to remind him to stay on one side of the stall while I’m cleaning out the other because he will smell my hair and walk in front of me for his favorite, wither itching.
I know that based on just spending time with horses doing some of the most, not the highlight of things to do, I can get to know those horses. I’ve gotten to know Errika a lot just by spending time with her doing things other than riding. Like enjoying sitting with her in the field, having a picnic with her, or my favorite - going over at night in a storm to bring her in for a few hours of grooming and dry time. Ok, no that is not my favorite, but I’m sure she likes it.
Riding has been the second thing for us. It’s been a lot of fun and I can’t tell you how awesome it is to ride her bareback. I laugh so hard I swear I’m going to fall off. I probably will one of these days, God knows I’ve come close! I feel safe, whole, ful-filled and confident when we ride. But again it’s just the icing on the cake. There is a whole bunch of other goodness underneath the icing.